In the wake of a recent hybrid attack on Denmark, experts emphasize the importance of helping children process difficult news, offering advice for concerned parents navigating conversations about drones, war, and national security threats.
Widespread Concerns Among Danish Children
As Denmark experiences a rise in hybrid threats, including cyberattacks and drone-related incidents, children are increasingly picking up on alarming headlines and adult conversations. These events, marked by complex geopolitical tensions, can cause confusion and anxiety among younger audiences.
Child welfare organization Save the Children Denmark (Red Barnet) stresses the significance of supporting children’s mental well-being when they’re exposed to such distressing topics. Adults play a key role in providing guidance as children try to understand events typically beyond their scope.
Understanding Hybrid Attacks in Denmark
The recent hybrid attack targeting critical Danish infrastructure involved both digital sabotage and the use of unmanned drones, sparking increased public concern. While no casualties were reported, the Danish Defense Intelligence Service confirmed multiple coordinated incidents, prompting national security protocol activation and heightened alert status. At least three state-run digital platforms experienced temporary outages, and airspace disturbances were monitored over key regions.
These events have not only dominated headlines but have also made their way into schools, homes, and playground discussions. With over 70 percent of Danish children aged 10–12 active on social media, many encounter filtered or misleading information, increasing their unease.
How to Talk to Children About Drones and Conflict
Start by Assessing What the Child Already Knows
Children react differently based on age, personality, and exposure. Some may have questions and fears; others might not be aware at all. Psychologists recommend starting the conversation by asking open-ended questions like, “Have you heard about what happened in Denmark this week?” or “Did anyone talk about the news in school?”
This helps parents gauge the child’s understanding and tailor answers appropriately. It’s essential to avoid overwhelming them with unnecessary detail while still addressing their emotions.
Adapt the Conversation by Age Group
Younger children may be unfamiliar with terms like “hybrid warfare” or “drones.” For these age groups, it can be beneficial to simplify explanations and offer reassurance. Older children, especially those using TikTok, Instagram, or YouTube, might already have encountered sensationalist content. In those cases, parents should clarify misunderstandings and offer credible sources like DR News or Ultra Nyt, a Danish news platform for kids.
Since more than 60 percent of Danish children in grades 4–6 reportedly consume news at least once a week, many are mentally engaged with current events, making dialogue increasingly important.
Don’t Be Afraid to Admit You Don’t Have All the Answers
Parents may feel unsure about how to respond to complex questions around national security or foreign affairs. Experts advise that it’s okay to say, “I’m not sure, let’s find out together.” Watching age-appropriate news segments or reading simplified resources together can help both the parent and child feel more informed.
The goal is not to have every answer, but to provide a sense of emotional stability and context that children can trust.
The Dangers of “Adult Talk” Around Children
One pressing concern is the unintentional exposure of children to fragments of adult discussions, whether at the dinner table or through overheard radio broadcasts. When children only hear partial narratives, they often fill in the gaps with their imagination – sometimes arriving at much scarier conclusions than reality warrants.
Parents and caregivers are advised to be mindful during adult conversations and, if children happen to overhear news reports or discussions, to check in with them afterward to ensure they’ve not been left confused or frightened.
Importance of Creating a Safe Dialogue Space
Allowing children to articulate fears, whether it’s about drones, potential war, or what might happen to their family, is crucial. Experts say fear in itself is not harmful; what matters is that a child feels supported in processing it. Establishing a safe, open environment builds resilience and emotional intelligence.
Upcoming Child-Focused News Coverage
To assist in clearing up confusion, Denmark’s public broadcaster DR will air a special segment on its children’s news program, Ultra Nyt, focusing on the hybrid attack, the national response, and how young people can understand what’s happened. The broadcast will include expert insights from the Danish Armed Forces and children’s advocacy groups. It will premiere Monday at 10 a.m. on DRTV.
With accessible and empathetic communication, Danish families can navigate an increasingly complex world without contributing to their children’s fear. Encouraging questions, providing honest answers, and offering reassurance remain key during times of national uncertainty.
