Young Danes are surprising their grandparents with heartfelt visits caught on video, bringing joy during difficult winter months and raising awareness about loneliness among the elderly in Denmark.
Surprise Visits Brighten the Dark Season
Every winter, when the days are short and light is scarce, loneliness hits many older Danes especially hard. According to Ældre Sagen, over 100,000 Danes aged 65 and older struggle with severe loneliness, and many more feel isolated at certain times of the year.
Now a wave of young people is finding a simple yet powerful way to reconnect. Inspired by a global trend, teenagers and young adults are surprising their grandparents with unannounced visits, sharing these emotional reunions on TikTok. Videos show grandparents breaking into wide smiles as their grandchildren arrive, sometimes armed with flowers, groceries, or even plans for dinner together.
The Trend Spreads Across Denmark
The trend began abroad but quickly caught on in Denmark. In one viral video, 28-year-old Thea Poulsen visits her grandparents with her cousins. They come prepared with ingredients for dinner and spend an evening cooking, playing games, and talking around the table. For Thea, it was more than just a fun visit. It was a way to show appreciation for the years her grandparents spent caring for them.
Another young Dane, Astrid Spurré Therkildsen, did something similar. Together with her cousins, she surprised her grandparents during the summer. The moment captured the warmth of family connection and gathered thousands of views. Her grandfather, Peter Therkildsen, later said that the visit had touched him deeply and made him reflect on how much these simple gestures mean as he grows older.
Loneliness Among the Elderly
Experts who work with older adults say the emotional effect of such visits can be profound. Many Danes in their senior years have lost close friends or spouses, leaving them with smaller circles of companionship. Others experience reduced mobility or hearing loss, which can make social interactions more difficult.
Ældre Sagen’s loneliness consultant David Vincent Nielsen notes that winter and summer months are especially challenging. During the cold season, darkness and icy conditions make it harder for seniors to get out and meet others. Meanwhile, summer holidays can feel isolating when social activities pause and families travel.
Visiting loved ones, he explains, can lift their spirits and reduce the feeling of isolation, even more than large public events or formal programs. Still, not all seniors feel comfortable reaching out. Many worry about being a burden to their busy families. That hesitation often leaves them waiting for others to take the first step.
The Importance of Connection
For both Thea and Astrid, the goal of their videos goes beyond social media clout. They hope their posts remind others to send a message, make a call, or stop by for coffee. Even small efforts can help someone feel seen and valued.
Many who watched the young women’s videos left comments saying they wished they still had grandparents to visit, showing how emotions tied to these relationships remain strong across generations. The reflection struck a chord and started discussions about what family means in modern Denmark.
Because of that, interest has grown in initiatives supporting intergenerational contact and mental well-being. Organizations and psychologists who work with older Danes stress that genuine personal connection—simple conversations or shared meals—can significantly reduce stress, depression, and even sleeping problems related to loneliness. Learning how to build social ties, whether through family or community, can make a lasting difference.
A Small Gesture That Means a Lot
While some might question the idea of filming private family moments, both young women see it as a way to celebrate love and preserve the memory. Their grandparents appreciate watching the moments again, and the videos serve as reminders of time well spent together.
In Denmark, where many families live far apart and schedules are busy, gestures like these serve as important reminders to slow down and reconnect. A brief visit or text message can make someone’s day a little brighter.
Loneliness is not unique to Denmark, but the Danish examples show how warmth and family care can break through it. As the darker months continue, that lesson may be just what many need to hear.
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